Surf and Turf

Love, is such a sensitive issue to discuss nowadays.
Yet, in this decade and time, it's the subject many fail to understand.


Love isn't just a feeling, it's involves actions.
Actions that either fill or deplete your individual love banks.
Actions directly, yet indirectly, affect how one feels for the people around him or her.

Love is the mere communication between spouses.
Love is a gift from sibling to another.
Love is a warm embrace from a parent to her child.
Love is dinner with 2 brothers who are not blood-related.
Love, is everywhere.



But love is confused my many.

My stand:
Love is not necessarily the strongest between married couples.

It doesn't mean that sharing a bond will spark love in the relationship.
And love doesn't just have to be between a man and a woman.


Confusion, makes love so "untouchable" to many.




One must be first loved before understanding the issue of love.
People speak out of their own experiences.

Opening one's heart to love may be difficult.
But the main problem today is people failing to open their hearts to BE LOVED by others.



One can never water others, before being watered.
One can never love others, before being loved first.



It's never wrong to love others.
Yes, yes.

However, actions must be controlled in the face of certain situations.
Timing is crucial.
And timing to act must be precise.


But who decides the timing?
You know who He is.


It's just like a business/company wanting to launch a new product, but has to wait till the market is ripe before officially opening it's doors for customers.

Now you know why KFC doesn't consistently sell spicy drumlets.


They WAIT, and strike when the time is right.
And they do it seasonally.


Love is just the same.
Once in awhile, gifts are nice. But going overboard may make you a cheesy person.



If you ask me, do I desire to be loved?
Yes, I do.
Everyone does.

You know yourself better than others.
And He knows you better than anyone else in this world.



But sticking to His schedule is what makes the world go round, not by my own timing.
We'll just have to wait and see what's in store for me. =D